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Chapter VI, Lubricants and Care

Chapter VI

Lubricants and Care

The quiet essentials that make everything else work.

Lubricants, cleaners and storage are the unglamorous infrastructure of this whole subject. The right formula depends on what it will touch: skin, latex, silicone, glass. The wrong combination can damage a product or irritate skin.

In this chapter

Water-based, silicone-based, oil-based and hybrid formulas compared · Which ingredients people with sensitive skin often look for or avoid · Why silicone lubricant and silicone products are a combination to check.

Sections in this chapter

  1. 1Water-based lubricants
  2. 2Silicone-based lubricants
  3. 3Oil-based products
  4. 4Hybrid formulas
  5. 5Sensitive-skin considerations
  6. 6Fragrance-free choices
  7. 7Compatibility considerations
  8. 8Massage oils
  9. 9Toy cleaners
  10. 10Cleaning and drying
  11. 11Storage bags and cases

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Material and fit notes

Osmolality and pH
Some public-health guidance discusses lubricant osmolality and pH. Manufacturers do not always publish these figures; when they do, they are worth noting for sensitive skin.

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General reference

Lubricant and material compatibility

A general educational summary of widely reported guidance. It does not replace the individual manufacturer’s instructions, which take precedence in every case. Where a cell says “check packaging”, the answer depends on the specific formula.

Compatibility of lubricant families with barrier and product materials
FormulaLatex condomsPolyisoprene condomsPolyurethane condomsSilicone productsTPE / TPR productsGlass & steel
Water-based lubricantGenerally compatibleWidely described as compatible.Generally compatibleWidely described as compatible.Generally compatibleWidely described as compatible.Generally compatibleThe conventional pairing.Generally compatibleUsually the only lubricant manufacturers recommend for TPE.Generally compatibleCompatible.
Silicone-based lubricantGenerally compatibleWidely described as compatible; confirm on packaging.Generally compatibleWidely described as compatible; confirm on packaging.Generally compatibleWidely described as compatible; confirm on packaging.Check packagingWidely reported to degrade some silicone surfaces. Follow the product manufacturer's guidance.Generally advised againstManufacturers generally advise against.Generally compatibleCompatible.
Hybrid formulaCheck packagingDepends on formula; confirm on packaging.Check packagingDepends on formula; confirm on packaging.Check packagingDepends on formula; confirm on packaging.Check packagingTreat as silicone-based unless the packaging says otherwise.Generally advised againstTreat as silicone-based; generally advised against.Generally compatibleCompatible.
Oil-based product / massage oilGenerally advised againstWidely reported to weaken latex.Generally advised againstWidely reported to weaken polyisoprene.Check packagingSome sources describe polyurethane as oil-tolerant; confirm on packaging.Check packagingSome oils are reported to affect silicone; follow manufacturer guidance.Generally advised againstManufacturers generally advise against.Generally compatibleCompatible; wash thoroughly.
  • Generally compatible
  • Check packaging
  • Generally advised against

Sources: WHO — Use and procurement of additional lubricants (advisory note); NHS — Condoms.

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Intended use
Category
Experience level
Material
Size range
Power type
Waterproof status
Noise
Features
Cleaning
Price tier

Price tiers are broad editorial categories, not live prices. Check current details on the product page.

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